Trials

Trials are never fun. My sister's car died this morning and is too expensive to fix. My car needed 500 dollars worth of work to keep it running last week. My sister is flying to Minnesota to drive a car of my parents back this weekend. My family is moving to China. I am broke. My car, even with the 500 dollars I spent on it may not last very long. My grades are not the best because I am working a full time job at night. My hair is messy today but I think I may want to go to an audition. Yes, another audition. I know I'm crazy. Life is crazy and I occasionally feel more at home with the craziness of life than the structured, normal times. But when the trials are really bad, after the initial breakdown, all I can think is that God must love me a lot to make me suffer this much. I know Jesus loves me because my life totally sucks. It's strange logic, but to the masochistic half-Jew, it completely makes sense. If I was having a good life, I would start to wonder about my decisions and if they were really in line with God's will. Maybe because I'm so busy dealing with the latest crisis or bit of bad news, I'm not worrying about my standing with God. My thought is: would he be giving me this many trials if he didn't know I could handle them with His help? Probably not? If I wasn't at least sort-of on the right path, I'd be punishing myself with unhappiness, so I'm going to be happy about the trials. My mother would always say: no one's dead, no one's in prison, so we're okay. Of course sometimes when she would say that Uncle Scott was still in prison, but I think she was just referring to the immediate family. Of course there was that time that Dad was in prison, but she wasn't in town for that.

Anyway, the point of this entire diatribe on trials is that in reading the account of John, I am reminded that Jesus knew what trials were coming and he still continued to help others and fulfill His mission. I suppose I shouldn't be amazed by this, but he knew what trials were coming. Greater trials than any other man had had to endure, and he was still helping other people through their trials. He was comforting his disciples after enduring in the Garden of Gethsemane. He was looking out for his mother when he was on the cross. He was forgiving people while he was suffering more than any mortal man could endure. How was he so good? He was the Son of God, and a God himself. He was at one with the father's will. How could we possibly be like him? I don't even know where to begin. But reading the Gospel of John, my favorite gospel, he is showing us in every word how to be more like Him. Examples are given, but more important to me are the words, the commands he gives. He is the light and life of the world. He is our example and has given us the light of the everlasting gospel to be our guide. We have to keep trying everyday. We have to keep trying, not only because He wants us to and has commanded us to, but because we really can't make it through trials on our own without that Spirit that comes from keeping his words and regarding them as our salvation. We have to keep going no matter what because it will never be so bad that we can't go on without his help. We are all stronger than each of us realizes. We are strong as keepers of the commandments and we are strong as those who can have the Spirit to be with them. And we have to keep going on, because the world is only going to become harder to endure, not easier. And to look at the highlights today no one is dead and no one is in jail. And more importantly I know that trials is one way I can become closer to my Savior; to become more like He is and wants me to be.

coming home

rummaging the children to get to the door
cement turns to fake grass covered stairs
iron bars follow me up and criss cross the
communal hallway houses the cold air and tonka
trucks lay with other fallen spoils of war
damaged and un lying desolate and abandoned
next door smells the seasoned beef simmering with oil
swelling the chill air with spices and then the
welcome mat lies looking always blankly up
unlocked the warm dark room awaits stilly wrapping
in the gentle deep exhalation and warm pins
prick my soul with peace
until the windows awake showing the black
and yellow noise all slipping around me and
lifting off the layers
until I am warm and naked

A personal God

Maybe it was all the Jewish holidays this last month or the struggles I have been having surviving day to day sometimes, but it occurred to me what a very personal God we have. I suppose many Christians believe in a God who is close to them, but not all do. My mother, while during Catholic school was never taught to pray personally. My father, raised without much religion most of his life, when he was studying to be a rabbi, would go up into the mountains to pray in true Biblical fashion. But we are taught to pray over everything. We pray over our 'flocks and fields' or anything that is important to us in our lives. We pray before sports events and theatrical performances. Coming from a place where prayer is considered to be something that you do in church or in a way that doesn't call attention to itself, this is still shocking. This praying over everything is still shocking to me even though I've been here three months.

The praying before plays was the first thing that really shocked me. My experience of theatres has shown me an environment very dissimilar to any religious environment. The theatre and church have always been very separate communities I belonged to. So praying in a theatre was about as shocked as I have been in many years. I have felt the Spirit while involved with theatrical productions, but I am usually alone in these feelings. The prayer before plays may seem normal to some, but to me it seems like a fissure in reality. So I always knew God cared about these very small things that I did, but seeing other people acknowledge these small things that God blesses us with was nice and interesting. It's just like the way God blesses us with personal prayer. I wonder how many times my dad would climb those mountains in California to pray? Was it everyday, or was praying only for particular guidance in a large and weighty matter? And I wonder if my mother said her own prayers to God as she chanted the set prayers.

Prayer is something very small, mundane almost. Except it is communicating with God. This was all inspired by rereading the account of Jesus taking on our sins in the Garden of Gethsemane. He called to his Father, and our Father. In the times of greatest distress he called out to his Father, as we all have called out to Him in our times of distress. And even times when we just needed to be clear on some things or talk about some things. He is actually listening to all the small things we say to him and watching all the small things we do everyday. He knows us and not a hair on our heads will be lost (or pulled out) except he knows it.